With Dr. Trevor Wilkins, Ph.D, LPCC-S, CCTP, NCC
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Betrayal isn’t weakness. It’s proof you carried weight others couldn’t.
You didn’t choose this wound. But you choose what happens next. Start the training-then decide your next move.
Trauma is brutal. Betrayal is worse.
It’s not weakness. It’s a brain injury from inside the tribe.
It rewires trust. Hypervigilance, rage spirals, shutdown.
It corrodes identity. “If they dumped me, what does that make me?”
What this training fixes
Constant red-alert state (fight/flight)
Betrayal lies (“I’m broken / can’t trust anyone”)
Identity collapse and mission loss
The battle plan (60–90 min)
Betrayal science — what it does to your nervous system and decision-making.
Nervous system reset — drills to stop the bleed-out.
REBT strikes — break betrayal lies with the toughest cognitive method on earth.
Mission identity — rebuild who you are beyond the agency that left you.
Questions warriors actually ask
Is this therapy?
No. It’s training. You’ll learn the model I use in therapy, but this class is education + tools you can run immediately.
What if I’ve already done therapy?
Good. This focuses on betrayal-specific injury: distrust loops, moral injury, identity collapse—and how to counterstrike with REBT.
Will this help if I’m not a cop or vet?
Yes. If betrayal rewired your system, the drills and belief work still apply.
Why will this help?
Look ,this class isn’t going to magically fix betrayal in 90 minutes. That’s not real life. What this class will do is hand you weapons, tools you can actually use today, to stop betrayal from running your mind and ruining the rest of your life. If you came here for hope and a fight plan, you’re in the right place.
20 Years in Public Safety
Former Law Enforcement
Critical Incident Tested
30+
Experience with Police Mental Health
Ph.D. Level Therapist
Not a Life Coach